When you are offended, the first thing that your mind process is retaliation. The process of retaliation is effected by anger which is a function of the actions you display. Anger is an emotion related to an individuals psychological interpretation of having been offended, overpowered, wronged or denied and a tendency to react through retaliation. The way or manner that anger is being expressed by an individual determines either it is controlled or uncontrolled. The ability to control anger shows to some extent the level of maturity of an individual. Anger shows it good side when it is controlled as it can be a functional value of survival with respect to adrenaline response to escape from danger of fight of attacks.
On the other hand, uncontrolled anger is ultimately destructive and is a breath to kindle the fire of disgrace. Uncontrolled anger blinds reason and is beyond reasonable doubt a period of miniature madness. It is part of human nature to exhibit anger, as even young children exhibit some traces of anger. We cannot fight human nature and the behaviours that are enjoined to it, but we can learn to control them and prevent them from getting out of hand. There are grave consequences attached to one's excesses in the behaviours that one exhibit.
Furthermore, Uncontrolled anger makes a normal and right thinking person into an insane animal. It shows us how dangerous and destructive an human being can be. But effective communication with one's consciousness ( self ) can help control anger and thereby reduce to the barest minimum the risk of causing destruction, exhibiting unreasonable actions, kindling the flame of crude retaliation and self inflicted public disgrace.
A good listener always exhibit controlled anger because he understands the motive behind any statement uttered to him.
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